TABOO: The Insider Workshop on Leaving
A Coercive Controlling Spouse and Facing
Family Court.

I’m an accredited Divorce Coach and Court Case Strategist.
I help women understand how to prepare, structure, and protect their case when leaving a coercive or controlling partner and entering the family-court system.

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My work blends behavioural insight, strategic planning, and hard-earned lived experience. I specialise in helping women present their case clearly and strategically — even when their past is messy, even when they feel judged, even when they fear they won’t be believed.

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I help women transform their voice into a coherent, grounded narrative

the court can understand.

This is why I created this intimate space: to guide women

before irreversible damage begins.

I bring the empowerment and clarity from my one-to-one work into a collective setting for women who are facing — or about to face — the family-court system.

I’m part of a very small percentage of mothers in England and Wales — just 4% — who were able to prove coercive and controlling behaviour in court.
That result didn’t happen by luck.
It was years of litigation, thousands of pounds, and a good legal team

I learned to lead with clarity, evidence, and strategy.

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I followed the new domestic-abuse approach emerging in the courts, and I set the tone from the very beginning — something that can shift the entire trajectory of a case and, at the very least, secure a fairer outcome.

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I created this space because too many mothers fall into the traps of a

system they don’t understand.
According to surveys 70% of mothers lose custody to abusive

fathers in court in England and Wales.
Over 200,000 children in England and Wales are currently pulled into

family-court proceedings.
 

This is not a small issue — it’s a national crisis.

The TABOO Supper Club exists to stand against that.
To give women accessible, high-level insight before the conflict escalates.
To help mothers avoid the pitfalls that cost so many their stability,

their voice, and their children.
To stop more children from being swallowed by a system that is not currently designed to protect them.

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*Places available to vulnerable mothers, please get in touch if this is your case.

The TABOO Formula: Experience, Strategy, and Truth Behind Closed Doors

High-Risk Environments
Years of supporting women in unstable, manipulative and unsafe conditions taught me how risk, power and psychology operate long before a case ever reaches court.

Surviving What Only 4% of Mothers Achieve
I endured years of litigation, with professionals calling my case “one of the most highly litigious seen.”

A Method You Can’t Learn Anywhere Else
Born from lived litigation, academic training and real high-risk environments — not theory or generic advice.

Working closely with women in a high-risk industry gave me a deep understanding of how controlling men behave, how coercion begins, and how women gradually lose their voice under pressure. I learned how to identify risk early, strengthen boundaries, calibrate emotions and rebuild personal power from chaotic circumstances.

These insights became the foundation of the strategic methods I use today — the same methods that help women enter separation and family court with clarity, strength and emotional stability instead of confusion or fear.

I survived a coercive and controlling relationship and secured a fact-finding outcome — something only 4% of mothers achieve. With hearings every two weeks for over two and a half years, I learned how the system interprets behaviour, how abusers weaponise procedures, and how protective mothers are often misunderstood.

My litigation years became a lived, evidence-based education in coercive control, post-separation abuse, behavioural manipulation, vexatious litigation and emotional strategy. It was far more intense than any academic degree I ever obtained — even after studying Diplomacy in Rio, Business Management in Madrid, International Affairs in Paris and completing a Master’s in Finance in London.